which is why i think it's just mere fantasies for that
guy?
anyway, your past shapes you to become what you are in the
present... and if the present is good, remember the past lessons
learnt, be a better person.. and from there, your future will be
brighter 
what happens to a lot of people is that they cannot let go of their
past, and refuse to learn from it... they cannot move on and are
living in their past.. so there is no present, and even less future
for them...
if one is able to grow, to keep in mind the lessons learn from the
past, it doesn't matter what happened before because you cannot
change that.. what matters is what you have now, and what you can
shape for yourself...
and wisdom gleaned from your past, may allow a better tomorrow
